Annual self reflection and intention setting brings me to Cabo San Lucas 😎
Boy, the silver linings this year were a worthy lesson. High level themes include the power of mindset and perspectives. Leading with the heart. Vulnerability. It’s truly been a year of refocusing my lens and tweaking my own formula. I found the key is to strengthen the structure, but constantly change the variables; we can choose to keep the current “x” and “y” or challenge ourselves to switch it up for growth and reinvent a fresh version of “ME”!
I feel alive to thrive and not survive, but be infusive to touch more lives than ever before.
I will forever remember 2020 as one of the best years of my life. While many of us want it to be over, in one way or another, if you view it through the right lens it was a beautiful, powerful, enlightening gift! So I share with you my learnings and personal tweaks as we step into 2021.
My 2020 grade? Going with an A-
Power of Choosing
* One of our best gifts is the power to choose in every aspect in life. It’s ok to go against the grain. I’ve learned and am still learning even when it seems like something has already been decided for us, there is always a choice how you react and your actions.
Go all in
* Leave it all out there, with everything you got! I choose to give it my best and leave the rest to the universe. I have nothing to lose and everything to gain by just being me.
Radiate LOVE every freaking day.
* I am love. YOU are love. WE are love. Together we are ONE. I look to continue to embody love, compassion and fully let go of any fear. The energy of love is bar none one of the most magical vibes!
Be intentional
* I ask myself, how is this serving me in my life? Am I doing “x” just to do it? Does it have purpose? I will continue to evolve incorporating these questions into my life decisions.
Open the heart
* Finally! It’s been hard to love again; 4yrs to be exact since the last time and I am so grateful that the amazing goddess I have been remaining open for has finally arrived and am beyond excited to experience our journey together! Working on loving myself was the key that has brought me more joy and blessings than I thought were possible and only with you find the same!
Vulnerability, Show up
* I am my authentic self every day. Self love paired with vulnerability has kept me grounded. I know it can be scary as all can be, but the world deserves to see how wonderful you are! Embodying this will constantly be a battle, but It’s beautiful to put yourself out there – I only look to continue to grow, challenge myself, and live unapologetically!
Rise together
* I win you win. So choosing to continue to help and support you and those around me brings next level happiness. I have your back! Please let me know how I can help uplift you! Let’s do this thing called life together!!!
Lead with the heart; Source of truth
* Is it my head or heart? Especially as a man, I’ve been conditioned to lead with my head and sometimes puts me down the path of nothing but knee jerk reactions. So this was my year to act out of love and screw the ego. Let me tell you it’s all still new to me and it’s brought so much light to my life and cannot preach this enough. Actually, it’s unlocked the door to attract everything I want in life. I now know this is what it is like to be a true MAN. Try it! And if you need pointers or help, I’m a text/email/phone call away.
Surrender and follow intuition
* No need to force anything and just let let life unfold as it is intended to. Everything happens for a reason and it is beautiful! I turn to the Higher Power and continue to trust the universe.
Practice gratitude daily
* I have been meditating daily, but feel like I can step up my game here by going deeper into the subconscious. Will also add in more volunteering and community participation – even if it’s as small as buying a meal for others or time at a food drive.
Accountability
* When I say I will do something, I follow through. In every shape or form and will continue to evolve my integrity.
There was a lot to purge and release this year; it was hard and at times not pretty, but can’t tell you enough how good it feels to do the work. The key was truly to go THROUGH it and not bury, ignore or try to erase it. I’ve worked hard to set myself free and there is no better natural feeling!
Please let me know how I can help uplift you in anyway! I am here. I see you. Much love and wishing you an abundant 2021 full of blessings and success!
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